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Choose to be the opposite of a naysayer, thinking and comporting yourself into the circumstances whereby you are taking the opposing position from the naysayer. It is far more a choice than a chance, as with the myriad of tools within your Shapetalking Psychology, a choice, not a chance.

Like most all human beings, you are surrounded by people who are expert at catching you (and others) red-handed in the act of doing something wrong. The Shapetalking Psychology endorses and ebulliently advances the value of reciprocating by adopting a far more productive line of energy:
Get better at, and then develop mastery and expertise in the RIDICULOUSLY-SIMPLE skill of catching people red-handed... in the act... of doing something right.

The Shapetalking Psychology reminds you that, regarding whatever pecentage of things receive in your life compared to what you want in life, and put it next to the percentages of getting what you EXPECTED, you will find this simple truism:

While we do not always get what we want in life we do in fact tend to get a far higher percentage of what we expect.

This is a master secret not only of the Shapetalking Psychology, it is a master secret of the universe, and the sooner you adopt this PowerGem of near-perfection, the faster you start reaping many, MANY more rewards. Catch people red-handed in the act of doing something right.

Put these two master secrets together! Create synergy, where one plus one equals more than two!

If and only if you genuinely "get it," that we most often get what we expect when we expect it all the way through and through, it means there is great truth and greater value in the training of humans to raise their expectations. When you raise your expectations, you raise the likelihood of raising your results. As a genuinely secondary-yet-still-sweet benefit, you defeat the naysayer, you definably gainsay and refute the core beliefs of the naysayer, claiming that "you cannot." The most powerful combination of phrases that exist in any language are, "I can, I will, I am." (Not, "I should, could, I would, instead choosing the proactive positive). So, when you establish higher expectations, you simultaneously establish a stronger foundation for the fullest refutation of the naysayer.

Raise Your Expectations!
Since we tend to find what we most look for, finding what we fully expected all along,
invest even the tiniest amount of time and effort into looking for what people do right.

Catch them in the act of doing something right...
... and then make as much of a big deal as others make of catching someone in the wrong.

Raising Expectations ... of yourself and others Surely the best way to deflate the validity of a naysayer's argument is to quickly, powerfully, and, for the long-term benefit of anyone within hearing distance, effectively undermine the naysayer by doing more. Each tiny step is worth so much more than its face value when combined with other related tiny steps. You already know that the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Individually, they certainly do not superficially appear to carry much in the way of progress towards the anticipated destination. When you put them to fruitful use with each other, however, you already know from the times that YOU have sustained through a challenging time that you made it through the other side of your challenges by adding together all the smaller steps that constitute your largest leaps.

Raise your expectations of what you expect to find in others. Let others know you think well enough of them to compliment ONLY the things they are doing right, and see how it encourages them, because it is no less than a master secret of the universe that human beings tend to repeat the behavior for which they are rewarded. Catch someone doing something right today, comment on it affirmatively, and, by the time you have done this a hundred or even several hundred times in your first hundred days of practicing this, and you will results improved enough to credit the Shapetalking Psychology with, or, more accurately, YOUR USE OF these Shapetalking Psychology master secrets and techniques and shortcuts.

Less talking, as the naysayer is wont to limit themselves to (naysayers rarely pursue their own bigger dreams with much enthusiasm), and more action on your part. The Shapetalking Psychology expects more from you, since you are a student of the Shapetalking Psychology. Where the naysayer expects less of you, the Shapetalking Psychology that is hard-wired into your own system expects a good bit more from you. You're worth the investment of trust... and one hundred and eighty-plus MILLION of MisterShortcut's most precious possessions. Be clear on this: You are well worth the effort, and this standing set of greater expectations of and for you.